Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Ajahn Brahm: The Power of Self-Centredness

Get to know the talk this morning and thus very last min to rally up my friends yet managed to get some folks down! Wasn't that an interesting title, The Power of Self-Centredness. I thought Ajahn Brahm can't be encouraging us to be selfish and egoistic :S But just his name alone made be felt worthwhile skipping my revision and heading there to meet him. And here's what I "thought" I remembered.

His Venerable starts by how amazed he was during his childhood days, he remembered whenever a child falls down and grazed his leg, his mother will just give the wound a kiss. The pain will just fade away and the wound heals up. Now a doctor would never do that coz the mouth is full of bacteria. But it works miraculously and he believes its the power of love that heals the wound.

Whenever he is sick or in pain, he will meditate and tries to spread his love to the pain. The illness will just recover very soon. Its just like the kiss on the wound from the mother.

He mentioned that a doctor came upon him dejected and sad due to his failed treatment causing the death of a patient. This led the young doctor leave his house and abandoned his home. Ajahn Brahm's advice to him is that he failed because his goal is to cure his patient. He will always fail because everyone will die one day. Instead, care for your patient. With that, he will always succeed and improve.

Ajahn Brahm being a scientist before taking the tonsure said he never believes in giving blessing but seems like its part of a job being a monk. He said that if chants work, then he just need to have a recorder and followers just dialed a number and he can get different kinds of chants he needs :) But he mentioned that he's blessing seems efficacious and he believes its due to his compassion. Everyone loves to be loved especially patient. He remembered once where he was suppose to give his blessings to a soon-to-depart patient but end up recovered his health after the blessings given!!

He just returned from his Indonesia trip and he recalls thousands of audience came for his talk recently. There are christians, catholics and muslims and he said everyone to him seems the same physically. He said that his brother is a banker and non-buddhist and he is a buddhist monk yet the sibling shared loves for each other. His nephew and nieces always welcomes him.

He explains on the notion of selflessness. He said selflessness is always thought of wrongly. Doing things not thinking of oneself is stupidity! He recalls during a marriage blessing ceremony at Malaysia, he tells the couple not to think for themselves and not to think of their spouse...... He mentioned that true selflessness is not to think for others or himself only but thinking in the perspective of "US". If something is wrong in the relationship is OUR problem not anyone's problem. Be it in our workplace or dealing with people, we should always think of everyone as OURS, cooperation will then be possible.

He suggested that school system should be changed. Marks should be like 70% on personal achievements while 30% is the average score of the class. With that, children can start to help each other and learn team spirit better. He also quoted examples how it can be done in workplace.

Selfish love among a man and a woman is a good way to grow love. And when they starts a family, this love will be extended to the kids. And when we have that, we could even learn to accept everyone with love. And that includes loving our enemy. Self-centredness is good as long as its used wisely. Love can start from self, extending to others. Inability to love ownself is very dangerous.

In the Q&A session, someone mentioned how to love someone when he is giving you constant pain. Venerable said that reflect upon using compassion. Imagine that we just have to face this "pain" few hours per day but this nasty poor soul has to face himself 24hrs everyday. He said to himself that he must not let people control his happiness and he has all rights to love anyone. Nursing a hatred is misery to both party. Loving your enemy makes you feel better and allows the other party to realize his mistakes even clearer and effectively.

As one knowing oneself, Ajahn Brahm talk about a famous indian story of a smith having many male disciples and a beautiful daughter. To get the daughter's hand, smith ordered all his disciples to go into the village to steal from the villages. The loot will be the dowry and his daughter will be given to the wisest man and most obedient ones. One disciple came back empty handed. Upon asking why he is not obeying him, the man says that he is obeying. The Smith's command is to steal without anyone looking. But whenever he steals he found that he is always looking. This story is to show that even when no one knows what we do, we ourselves is looking at our own deeds.

Someone ask Ajahn Brahm, isn't being a monk selfish having to abandon his family. He says that being a monk is training from loving your love ones to loving everyone. He also mentioned that Buddhism is free from hierarchies. Some arch-bishops were displeased with the Vatican as they are setting orders not based on what happen on the ground. Buddha said in the Sutta that after him, no one will take over his role and let his teachings be the guide. Follow the Dharma not the monks. Monks are just like anyone of us, sure to make mistakes still.

Kids nowadays seem to be influenced badly and becoming more self-centric. Ajahn Brahm commented that even teen gangs function in groups and isolation is lonely. Teens should be given more space to learn. On question about a selfish father not taking care of the family but wanting the children to pay him allowance when they started working. Ajahn Brahm advice that it is a good way to reflect on selfishness and we will not commit that on our kids. The advice he gave to the person is to shower the father with more love.

He ends off my sharing merits to all sentient beings and victims of recent disaster. Hope this covers as much of the information that my tiny brain can recall :)

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

摆渡

词:释继程

你唤彼岸来
彼岸不来
到彼岸去吧

由此岸 渡往彼岸
筏在两岸间

你撑筏 抵彼岸 舍筏登岸去
回头望 看彼岸 此岸成彼岸

此故彼 彼故此
此彼本不二

此岸去 彼岸来
摆渡两岸间

缘生缘灭
不生不灭
诸法空无性

此岸彼岸非二
不来不去
无相无性无心


Song taken from the album "摆渡". One of the best Buddhist album I came across :D You can still get it at Awareness Bookstore at KMSPKS temple. The shifu that writes the songs should be at Malaysia.

This album is a compilation of wisdom and effort. The lyrics are not very easy to understand but have profound meanings. Selected this song to share.

It is actually a commonly used Buddhist analogy of crossing over to the shore of enlightenment. And the river is the river of suffering. This song talks about how the raft is used to cross over the river of suffering. Yet, the lyrics also focused on having the wrong view of duality in perceiving the shores.

Raft is just a tool to cross the shore and raft can be seen as the Dharma or also the worldly encounters we face everyday. If there is no source of suffering, its hard to gain enlightenment. Having an idea of this shore and that shore seems to be a limited parable used to simplify the process. Yet one should not stick to an idea there is a place or a shore to go to.

Samsara is also a pureland. And it is actually the pureland of Sakyamuni Buddha. Someone asked Buddha why his pure land is not as nice as other Buddhas. How we perceive the pureland is based on the purity of our own mind and perception. Different between an enlightened being and an unenlightened being is different in the mind and its perception.

Sunday, March 20, 2011

Nature of rain

Does rain happen for a reason? And was meaning of rain given by rain itself or man? Something that ran through my mind when I was mugging at somewhere watching the rain....

Common observation would be the rain falls naturally and spontaneously with no reason. But as I look deeper. Rain is the result of water vapour, heat and wind. Missing one of the factor, there is no rain.

Does rain fall for a reason? Then, who gives it reason? Why is there rain? With rain, there is life. So is it god's gift to life on earth? But if its god-sent, with his omnipotent power, life need not depend on rain.

And if it is not god-sent, who else gives it meaning? Poet? Poems and stories indeed paint an even more significant role of rain then just supporting life. Yet, if someone has the ability to control rain, then he is not doing a good job in giving timely rain causing floods and drought.

Maybe by transcending the concepts of duality can man understand the meaning of rain, the nature of life.

All credits goes to the buddhism chants I am listening, bible at the next table, and the nice shelter under the rain :P

Thursday, March 17, 2011

认识业力,改变人生。

Dharma talk @ FGS Temple Singapore
16 Mar 2011
Speaker: 慧僧法师
Title:认识业力,改变人生。

Shifu starts the talk by shaking up our perceptions on what constitute good and bad. Red color is seen as prosperity while the westerns view red as danger. White means death for chinese while it means peace and purity in other society. Thus, color is neutral and is not good nor bad. It is our habitual perceptions to norms we encountered everyday that shapes our wrong views.

If someone that comes for the talk with interest, he will benefit at least 80% of what's taught in the talk. Those that come when asked by a friend will gain lesser. Those that came unwillingly will waste the trip altogether.

Even for people that is born with a good life (Karma) needs wisdom. “有钱是福报,用钱是智慧。”How we conduct ourselves with good action, speech and thoughts needs the right conditions for success to happen. Yet, without observing our action, speech and thoughts, we can not lessen our mental stress.

On how Karma works, Shifu shared that when we planted a water melon seed, we can not expect to get another fruit. And when we have planted the right seed, we need to give it optimal conditions and fertiliser to let it mature into a big plant.

Seeds (Karma) that has been planted can never be changed or removed. It can only be lessen. The concept is on the proportion of bad karma to the overall good. Doing more good will reduce the proportion of bad, thus reducing the chance of the bad Karma to ripen.

Karma does not support the extreme of "resigning to fate" and "things happening spontaneously with no reason." Results of the future can be changed based on what we do now. There are matters that could be controlled and matters that we have no power to control. Thus, we can not expect a sure good life just by practising Buddhism faithfully now. Bad things that can happen is resulted from bad seeds planted before.

"If by chanting rapidly allow us to reach enlightenment, then the chanting player is better at it.
If by meditating for long hours allow us to reach enlightenment, then animals in hibernation is better at it. And if by being vegetarian allow us to reach enlightenment, then cows and sheep is definitely better at it."

As buddhist, we need to be aware that Buddhist practise is to train our mind (修心) and not to develop other abilities. Doing bad deeds worsen our Karma by not just disallowing plants to grow well but burying stones in the soil.

Factors that affects Destiny are;
1) 习惯 - Habits (Action leads to habit)
2) 迷信 - Superstition (Result from lacking of self-confidence)
3) 情念 - Love attachments
4) 权利 - Desire for power
5) 业力 - Karma (Actions are the biggest factor that decides the destiny)

How and when the Karma will ripen depends on
1) Strength of deed.
2) Habits
3) Thoughts

To change our destiny,
1) Change our behavior.
2) Change our behavior; thoughts and views.
3) Make friends (广结善缘)
4) Keeping precepts (持戒)

Happiness can be attained by cultivating
1) 感恩 - Gratitude
2) 乐观 - Optimistic
3) 正面思维 - Positivity
4) 发挥所长 - Develop strength
5) 多做善事 - Doing good deeds

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Introduction to Buddhism

I shall boldly attempt to give a very brief introduction to buddhism and its belief system. Any misinterpretation, please kindly highlight by commenting to benefit any person that may have the chance to come across.

Buddhism can be seen as a school of concepts, belief as well as facts about the happenings around us. Some see it as faith, while academias may see its relatedness to disciplines like sociology, pyschology and physics. Einstein being a Jewish that live his whole life in the western society sees buddhism in this light :

The religion of the future will be a cosmic religion. It should transcend personal God and avoid dogma and theology. Covering both the natural and the spiritual, it should be based on a religious sense arising from the experience of all things natural and spiritual as a meaningful unity. Buddhism answers this description. If there is any religion that could cope with modern scientific needs it would be Buddhism. (Albert Einstein)

Buddhism subscribes to both the notion of creation and evolution. Creation as in things does not arise spontaneously out of no where. And buddhism believes in inter-dependent origination. A good example will be a seed (cause) needs conditions (sunlight, air, soil and water) to grow to a plant (result). Soil contains minerals that might once be from another plant, animals or even rocks and sand. Evolution comes in when changes in conditions in the environment will bear different results.

Buddha, is a title given to beings that have fully awakened or enlightened. Our world is call the Samsara and Siddharta Gautama was the Buddha of this Samsara world. Someone asked Buddha who he is and this is his reply

http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an04/an04.036.than.html

Buddha teaches his disciples on how to free themselves from suffering and he talks about the 4 noble truth. In simplified example, it is akin to a patient's visit to a doctor. The doctor diagnosed the illness (1st), finds the root of the illness (2nd), assures the patient of a complete recovery(3rd) and lay down the medicine for recovery (4th).


Buddhism talks about universal love like most religion but focus on having a boundless love for all sentient beings. That is love without conditions even to other beings that are non human namely hell-beings, hungry ghost, animals, Asuras (Demi-gods) and Devas (Gods).

Buddhists are taught to remove the "self" entity yet repects all other beings seeing that all beings desire to live and fear death. Buddhism do not sees oneself as superior and other beliefs as inferior to theirs. A type of meditation call the metta meditation is practise by wishing oneself and wishing all sentient beings of the 10 directions peace and free from sufferings.

From the idea of cyclic rebirth, buddhist are taught to show compassion and respect to all beings as they may be our parents of past lives.

Teachings of the Buddha was passed down by words of mouth in form of chants as writings were not well developed in such ancient time. Some may thought that words passed by human mouths are unreliable. But the 1st consolidation of the teachings were done by matching the lessons among different monks and were verified by enlightened disciples of Buddha who is know as the Arahats.

Here is what Buddha said about what what constitute the right teachings and what he has taught :

“There are some holy men and priests, Venerable Sir, who come and claim that only their teaching is right and condemn the teachings of others. Then some other holy men and priests came to Kesaputta; and they, in turn, claim that their teaching is right and others wrong. As a result, doubt has come to us. Which of these holy men and priests spoke the truth?”

The Buddha replied: “It is proper to doubt in things that are doubtful. Come, O Kalamas:”

1) Do not believe anything based on revelation
2) Do not believe anything through tradition handed down from the past
3) Do not believe anything through hearsay (gossip, rumour, etc.)
4) Do not believe anything because it accords with the holy scriptures
5) Do not believe anything through logic
6) Do not believe anything because it is a point of view.
7) Do not believe anything through having considered the reasons
8) Do not believe anything because one is convinced of some theory
9) Do not believe anything through the testimony of some reliable person
10) Do not believe in anything thinking, “This person is a great preacher”.

“Kalamas, when you yourselves know what is evil, blameworthy and censured by the enlightened wise, abandon those things. When you yourselves know that these things are good, not blameworthy, but praised by the wise, accept and practise them”

Last but not least, Buddhism is all embracing as it is looking at things as how it really is. Law of Karma is simply Law of Cause and Effect. We reap what we sow. What we did in the past will affect what we are facing now. And what we do now will affect what we get in future. But having said that, Buddhism does not support pre-destination (which most god-believer religion believes in).


Karma only lays down the condition but not the result. Example will be someone doing a good deed results in a good rebirth. Having born in a wealthy family, he may still end up doing more goods or more evil. Thus, there is no eternal suffering and eternal bliss (unless attaining final liberation).



Monday, March 14, 2011

Meditation of Death

Refreshing feeling since I have not went for Dharma talk for quite some time. I am always interested in "death" and thus the topic attracts me!

Dr Ng, is the speaker of the evening. He was a practising doctor and his patients are mainly patients who are chronically ill, suffering from dementia or physically impaired. He is definitely very experience in addressing issues about death. We all learnt a great deal on how to prepare death and how to take care of patients that is very ill.

He first led us into meditation starting from doing Metta Meditation and continues into doing the Death Meditation. So its like from " May all be well and happy" into "We shall surely die". haha!! According to Ekottara Agama, mindfulness of death is one of them.

He brought to our attention his survey conducted on his patients on whether they fear and why they fear death. Males and females alike, they all say they are fearless as they have did nothing wrong in life. Seems like across all religion, living a righteous life seems to be the comfort for after life.

He shared that being able to die a good and natural death holds only very little percentage to total deaths. And most people will develop physical impairment and dementia before they die.

We also explored into the belief of rebirth. Rebirth is something that believers of Karma would subscribe to. Yet, Dr Ng showed us a Youtube Video of a child that has clear recollection of death. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_EWwzFwUOxA

Dr Ng also stressed to us on the importance of the last thought process before death. This thought is important as it will lead us to either favorable or less favorable channel of rebirth. Below is his analogy on the last thought process.

If we have a cattle pen, the biggest sheep will pass through the gate first. After which the sheeps that stays near the gate will leave first. Then, if the pen has more white sheeps, we are sure the next group of sheeps to escape will be white sheeps. And lastly, if the pen houses only sheeps of very slight variance, then the sheeps that escape first will be quite random.

This is to mean that our last thought process can be nurtured by habits. Habitual tendency will dictate the condition of our last thought process.

He also shared about how actually effects of Karma being non linear. His analogy is how a non smoker still have the risk of developing cancer. But the probability is definitely higher for smoker to develop cancer.

Saturday, March 5, 2011

DN 31 Sigalovada Sutta: The Discourse to Sigala

DN 31
PTS: D iii 180
Sigalovada Sutta: The Discourse to Sigala
The Layperson's Code of Discipline
translated from the Pali by
Narada Thera


Thus have I heard:
On one occasion the Exalted One was dwelling in the Bamboo Grove, the Squirrels' Sanctuary, near Rajagaha.

Now at that time, young Sigala, a householder's son, rising early in the morning, departing from Rajagaha, with wet clothes and wet hair, worshipped with joined hands the various quarters — the East, the South, the West, the North, the Nadir, and the Zenith.

Then the Exalted One, having robed himself in the forenoon took bowl and robe, and entered Rajagaha for alms. Now he saw young Sigala worshipping thus and spoke to him as follows:

"Wherefore do you, young householder, rising early in the morning, departing from Rajagaha, with wet clothes and wet hair, worship, with joined hands these various quarters — the East, the South, the West, the North, the Nadir, and the Zenith?"
"My father, Lord, while dying, said to me: The six quarters, dear son, you shall worship. And I, Lord, respecting, revering, reverencing and honoring my father's word, rise early in the morning, and leaving Rajagaha, with wet clothes and wet hair, worship with joined hands, these six quarters."

"It is not thus, young householder, the six quarters should be worshipped in the discipline of the noble."

"How then, Lord, should the six quarters be worshipped in the discipline of the noble? It is well, Lord, if the Exalted One would teach the doctrine to me showing how the six quarters should be worshipped in the discipline of the noble."
"Well, young householder, listen and bear it well in mind; I shall speak." — "Very good, Lord," responded young Sigala.

And the Exalted One spoke as follows:
"Inasmuch, young householder, as the noble disciple (1) has eradicated the four vices in conduct,[1] (2) inasmuch as he commits no evil action in four ways, (3) inasmuch as he pursues not the six channels for dissipating wealth, he thus, avoiding these fourteen evil things, covers the six quarters, and enters the path leading to victory in both worlds: he is favored in this world and in the world beyond. Upon the dissolution of the body, after death, he is born in a happy heavenly realm.

(1) "What are the four vices in conduct that he has eradicated? The destruction of life, householder, is a vice and so are stealing, sexual misconduct, and lying. These are the four vices that he has eradicated."

Thus spoke the Exalted One. And when the Master had thus spoken, he spoke yet again:
Killing, stealing, lying and adultery,
These four evils the wise never praise.

(2) "In which four ways does one commit no evil action? Led by desire does one commit evil. Led by anger does one commit evil. Led by ignorance does one commit evil. Led by fear does one commit evil.[2]
"But inasmuch as the noble disciple is not led by desire, anger, ignorance, and fear, he commits no evil."

Thus spoke the Exalted One. And when the Master had thus spoken, he spoke yet again:
Whoever through desire, hate or fear,
Or ignorance should transgress the Dhamma,
All his glory fades away
Like the moon during the waning half.
Whoever through desire, hate or fear,
Or ignorance never transgresses the Dhamma,
All his glory ever increases
Like the moon during the waxing half.

(3) "What are the six channels for dissipating wealth which he does not pursue?
(a) "indulgence in intoxicants which cause infatuation and heedlessness;
(b) sauntering in streets at unseemly hours;
(c) frequenting theatrical shows;
(d) indulgence in gambling which causes heedlessness;
(e) association with evil companions;
(f) the habit of idleness.

(a) "There are, young householder, these six evil consequences in indulging in intoxicants which cause infatuation and heedlessness:
(i) loss of wealth,
(ii) increase of quarrels,
(iii) susceptibility to disease,
(iv) earning an evil reputation,
(v) shameless exposure of body,
(vi) weakening of intellect.

(b) "There are, young householder, these six evil consequences in sauntering in streets at unseemly hours:
(i) he himself is unprotected and unguarded,
(ii) his wife and children are unprotected and unguarded,
(iii) his property is unprotected and unguarded,
(iv) he is suspected of evil deeds,[3]
(v) he is subject to false rumours,
(vi) he meets with many troubles.

(c) "There are, young householder, these six evil consequences in frequenting theatrical shows. He is ever thinking:
(i) where is there dancing?
(ii) where is there singing?
(iii) where is there music?
(iv) where is there recitation?
(v) where is there playing with cymbals?
(vi) where is there pot-blowing?[4]

(d) "There are, young householder, these six evil consequences in indulging in gambling:
(i) the winner begets hate,
(ii) the loser grieves for lost wealth,
(iii) loss of wealth,
(iv) his word is not relied upon in a court of law,
(v) he is despised by his friends and associates,
(vi) he is not sought after for matrimony; for people would say he is a gambler and is not fit to look after a wife.
(e) "There are, young householder, these six evil consequences in associating with evil companions, namely: any gambler, any libertine, any drunkard, any swindler, any cheat, any rowdy is his friend and companion.
(f) "There are, young householder, these six evil consequences in being addicted to idleness:
"He does no work, saying:
(i) that it is extremely cold,
(ii) that it is extremely hot,
(iii) that it is too late in the evening,
(iv) that it is too early in the morning,
(v) that he is extremely hungry,
(vi) that he is too full.

"Living in this way, he leaves many duties undone, new wealth he does not get, and wealth he has acquired dwindles away."

Thus spoke the Exalted One. And when the Master had thus spoken, he spoke yet again:
"One is a bottle friend; one says, 'friend, friend' only to one's face; one is a friend and an associate only when it is advantageous.

"Sleeping till sunrise, adultery, irascibility, malevolence, evil companions, avarice — these six causes ruin a man.

"The man who has evil comrades and friends is given to evil ways, to ruin does he fall in both worlds — here and the next.

"Dice, women, liquor, dancing, singing, sleeping by day, sauntering at unseemly hours, evil companions, avarice — these nine[5] causes ruin a man.
"Who plays with dice and drinks intoxicants, goes to women who are dear unto others as their own lives, associates with the mean and not with elders — he declines just as the moon during the waning half.

"Who is drunk, poor, destitute, still thirsty whilst drinking, frequents the bars, sinks in debt as a stone in water, swiftly brings disrepute to his family.

"Who by habit sleeps by day, and keeps late hours, is ever intoxicated, and is licentious, is not fit to lead a household life.

"Who says it is too hot, too cold, too late, and leaves things undone, the opportunities for good go past such men.

"But he who does not regard cold or heat any more than a blade of grass and who does his duties manfully, does not fall away from happiness."

"These four, young householder, should be understood as foes in the guise of friends:
(1) he who appropriates a friend's possessions,
(2) he who renders lip-service,
(3) he who flatters,
(4) he who brings ruin.

(1) "In four ways, young householder, should one who appropriates be understood as a foe in the guise of a friend:
(i) he appropriates his friend's wealth,
(ii) he gives little and asks much,
(iii) he does his duty out of fear,
(iv) he associates for his own advantage.

(2) "In four ways, young householder, should one who renders lip-service be understood as a foe in the guise of a friend:
(i) he makes friendly profession as regards the past,
(ii) he makes friendly profession as regards the future,
(iii) he tries to gain one's favor by empty words,
(iv) when opportunity for service has arisen, he expresses his inability.

(3) "In four ways, young householder, should one who flatters be understood as a foe in the guise of a friend:
(i) he approves of his friend's evil deeds,
(ii) he disapproves his friend's good deeds,
(iii) he praises him in his presence,
(iv) he speaks ill of him in his absence.

(4) "In four ways, young householder, should one who brings ruin be understood as a foe in the guise of a friend:
(i) he is a companion in indulging in intoxicants that cause
infatuation and heedlessness,
(ii) he is a companion in sauntering in streets at unseemly hours,
(iii) he is a companion in frequenting theatrical shows,
(iv) he is a companion in indulging in gambling which causes heedlessness."

Thus spoke the Exalted One. And when the Master had thus spoken, he spoke yet again:
The friend who appropriates,
the friend who renders lip-service,
the friend that flatters,
the friend who brings ruin,
these four as enemies the wise behold,
avoid them from afar as paths of peril.

"These four, young householder, should be understood as warm-hearted friends:
(1) he who is a helpmate,
(2) he who is the same in happiness and sorrow,
(3) he who gives good counsel,
(4) he who sympathises.

(1) "In four ways, young householder, should a helpmate be understood as a warm-hearted friend:
(i) he guards the heedless,
(ii) he protects the wealth of the heedless,
(iii) he becomes a refuge when you are in danger,
(iv) when there are commitments he provides you with double the
supply needed.

(2) "In four ways, young householder, should one who is the same in happiness and sorrow be understood as a warm-hearted friend:
(i) he reveals his secrets,
(ii) he conceals one's own secrets,
(iii) in misfortune he does not forsake one,
(iv) his life even he sacrifices for one's sake.

(3) "In four ways, young householder, should one who gives good counsel be understood as a warm-hearted friend:
(i) he restrains one from doing evil,
(ii) he encourages one to do good,
(iii) he informs one of what is unknown to oneself,
(iv) he points out the path to heaven.

(4) "In four ways, young householder, should one who sympathises be understood as a warm-hearted friend:
(i) he does not rejoice in one's misfortune,
(ii) he rejoices in one's prosperity,
(iii) he restrains others speaking ill of oneself,
(iv) he praises those who speak well of oneself."

Thus spoke the Exalted One. And when the Master had thus spoken, he spoke yet again:
The friend who is a helpmate,
the friend in happiness and woe,
the friend who gives good counsel,
the friend who sympathises too —
these four as friends the wise behold
and cherish them devotedly
as does a mother her own child.

The wise and virtuous shine like a blazing fire.
He who acquires his wealth in harmless ways
like to a bee that honey gathers,[6]
riches mount up for him
like ant hill's rapid growth.

With wealth acquired this way,
a layman fit for household life,
in portions four divides his wealth:
thus will he friendship win.

One portion for his wants he uses,[7]
two portions on his business spends,
the fourth for times of need he keeps.

"And how, young householder, does a noble disciple cover the six quarters?

"The following should be looked upon as the six quarters. The parents should be looked upon as the East, teachers as the South, wife and children as the West, friends and associates as the North, servants and employees as the Nadir, ascetics and brahmans as the Zenith.[8]

"In five ways, young householder, a child should minister to his parents as the East:
(i) Having supported me I shall support them,
(ii) I shall do their duties,
(iii) I shall keep the family tradition,
(iv) I shall make myself worthy of my inheritance,
(v) furthermore I shall offer alms in honor of my departed
relatives.[9]

"In five ways, young householder, the parents thus ministered to as the East by their children, show their compassion:
(i) they restrain them from evil,
(ii) they encourage them to do good,
(iii) they train them for a profession,
(iv) they arrange a suitable marriage,
(v) at the proper time they hand over their inheritance to them.

"In these five ways do children minister to their parents as the East and the parents show their compassion to their children. Thus is the East covered by them and made safe and secure.
"In five ways, young householder, a pupil should minister to a teacher as the South:
(i) by rising from the seat in salutation,
(ii) by attending on him,
(iii) by eagerness to learn,
(iv) by personal service,
(v) by respectful attention while receiving instructions.

"In five ways, young householder, do teachers thus ministered to as the South by their pupils, show their compassion:
(i) they train them in the best discipline,
(ii) they see that they grasp their lessons well,
(iii) they instruct them in the arts and sciences,
(iv) they introduce them to their friends and associates,
(v) they provide for their safety in every quarter.

"The teachers thus ministered to as the South by their pupils, show their compassion towards them in these five ways. Thus is the South covered by them and made safe and secure.

"In five ways, young householder, should a wife as the West be ministered to by a husband:
(i) by being courteous to her,
(ii) by not despising her,
(iii) by being faithful to her,
(iv) by handing over authority to her,
(v) by providing her with adornments.

"The wife thus ministered to as the West by her husband shows her compassion to her husband in five ways:
(i) she performs her duties well,
(ii) she is hospitable to relations and attendants[10]
(iii) she is faithful,
(iv) she protects what he brings,
(v) she is skilled and industrious in discharging her duties.

"In these five ways does the wife show her compassion to her husband who ministers to her as the West. Thus is the West covered by him and made safe and secure.

"In five ways, young householder, should a clansman minister to his friends and associates as the North:
(i) by liberality,
(ii) by courteous speech,
(iii) by being helpful,
(iv) by being impartial,
(v) by sincerity.

"The friends and associates thus ministered to as the North by a clansman show compassion to him in five ways:
(i) they protect him when he is heedless,
(ii) they protect his property when he is heedless,
(iii) they become a refuge when he is in danger,
(iv) they do not forsake him in his troubles,
(v) they show consideration for his family.

"The friends and associates thus ministered to as the North by a clansman show their compassion towards him in these five ways. Thus is the North covered by him and made safe and secure.

"In five ways should a master minister to his servants and employees as the Nadir:
(i) by assigning them work according to their ability,
(ii) by supplying them with food and with wages,
(iii) by tending them in sickness,
(iv) by sharing with them any delicacies,
(v) by granting them leave at times.

"The servants and employees thus ministered to as the Nadir by their master show their compassion to him in five ways:
(i) they rise before him,
(ii) they go to sleep after him,
(iii) they take only what is given,
(iv) they perform their duties well,
(v) they uphold his good name and fame.

"The servants and employees thus ministered to as the Nadir show their compassion towards him in these five ways. Thus is the Nadir covered by him and made safe and secure.

"In five ways, young householder, should a householder minister to ascetics and brahmans as the Zenith:
(i) by lovable deeds,
(ii) by lovable words,
(iii) by lovable thoughts,
(iv) by keeping open house to them,
(v) by supplying their material needs.

"The ascetics and brahmans thus ministered to as the Zenith by a householder show their compassion towards him in six ways:
(i) they restrain him from evil,
(ii) they persuade him to do good,
(iii) they love him with a kind heart,
(iv) they make him hear what he has not heard,
(v) they clarify what he has already heard,
(vi) they point out the path to a heavenly state.

"In these six ways do ascetics and brahmans show their compassion towards a householder who ministers to them as the Zenith. Thus is the Zenith covered by him and made safe and secure." Thus spoke the Exalted One. And when the Master had thus spoken, he spoke yet again:
The mother and father are the East,
The Teachers are the South,
Wife and Children are the West,
The friends and associates are the North.

Servants and employees are the Nadir,
The ascetics and brahmans are the Zenith;
Who is fit to lead the household life,
These six quarters he should salute.

Who is wise and virtuous,
Gentle and keen-witted,
Humble and amenable,
Such a one to honor may attain.

Who is energetic and not indolent,
In misfortune unshaken,
Flawless in manner and intelligent,
Such a one to honor may attain.

Who is hospitable, and friendly,
Liberal and unselfish,
A guide, an instructor, a leader,
Such a one to honor may attain.

Generosity, sweet speech,
Helpfulness to others,
Impartiality to all,
As the case demands.

These four winning ways make the world go round,
As the linchpin in a moving car.
If these in the world exist not,
Neither mother nor father will receive,
Respect and honor from their children.

Since these four winning ways
The wise appraise in every way,
To eminence they attain,
And praise they rightly gain.

When the Exalted One had spoken thus, Sigala, the young householder, said as follows:
"Excellent, Lord, excellent! It is as if, Lord, a man were to set upright that which was overturned, or were to reveal that which was hidden, or were to point out the way to one who had gone astray, or were to hold a lamp amidst the darkness, so that those who have eyes may see. Even so, has the doctrine been explained in various ways by the Exalted One.

"I take refuge, Lord, in the Buddha, the Dhamma, and the Sangha. May the Exalted One receive me as a lay follower; as one who has taken refuge from this very day to life's end."

Friday, March 4, 2011

狗狗的佛法



We name her "Ah Girl" coz that name seems to trigger the most response from her other than tempting with food :D Got her for about 3months and from her behavior I see how wholesome and analytical is Buddhism is understanding all sentient beings.


Call it fate I suppose. When we got her from her previous owner, she did not struggle at all and even till now she is not showing signs of wanting to go back. She just clicked with our family instantly.


Anyway when I am with her, talking to her, looking into her eyes. I am like talking to a human. Looking beyond her dog's body through her eyes, she is just like any beings when you look through their eyes too. Humans inclusive. She likes to play with us, stick to us very closely and likes to eat!


From ah Girl you see a being that lacks far lesser intelligence (wisdom) and characters overwhelmed with sensual desires. However, even when we are so close to her, but in the face of food being snatched away, she resorted to barking and snatching the piece of bone back.


She also likes us carassing her fur. She likes to bark at strangers but when we try to stop her, she continues to bark with lesser volume. Its like a drug addict that clings strongly to her habits.


Buddha teaches us that all sentient beings possess Buddha nature and given time, when the bad Karma lessens and good Karma surfaces (with the right conditions), she will be reborn to the higher realms (Humans, Asuras and Devas). I would say the forces of Karma could be seen as habitual tendencies, and the intensities of the habit. With such, we are pulled by the karmic forces to the realm that attracts us.


To summarize, Karma is not pre-destination and Buddhism generally do not accepts pre-destination. We are what we are due to what we do in the past. And sequentially, what we are in the future depends on what we do now. It is an active ideology that inspires progressive betterment of oneself.
In Buddhism, there are countless Sutras and literatures that dwells on the notion and the journey of death and the crossing to other birth. One book that was highly recommended by my friend is called "Tibetan book of death" which I have yet to lay my hands on. To understand the nature of the mind since it was only the mind that handles the life after death, the branch of buddhism studies call 维识学 is definitely a must to focus on.


To end off, ah Girl is actually a high EQ dog!